Relative clauses add information about a noun using pronouns like who, which, that, whose, and where. They can be defining (essential to the meaning) or non-defining (extra information set off by commas). Getting the pronoun and comma usage right is a key advanced skill.
A relative clause adds information about a noun, and it opens with a relative pronoun that stands in for that noun.
Use who for people, which for things, that for either, whose for possession, where for places, when for times, and why after the word reason (the man who called, the book which arrived, the city where I grew up). A defining clause says which one you mean and takes no commas (The report that I sent was wrong); a non-defining clause adds an extra detail about something already identified, sits between commas, and can never use that (My boss, who is new, approved it). In a defining clause only, you can leave the pronoun out when it is the object of that clause (the book I read) — never when it is the subject (the book that arrived), and never after a preposition, where formal writing uses whom or which (the colleague with whom I trained).
Use who for a person and which for a thing, with that available for either in a defining clause
The engineer who designed it still works here.
Use whose to show that the noun after it belongs to the person or thing
The scientist whose research led to the vaccine won an award.
Leave the commas out when the clause identifies which one you mean, because the sentence needs it
The email that arrived this morning was urgent.
Put commas around the clause when it only adds extra detail, and use who or which rather than that
My manager, who started in March, approved the budget.
Use where or when instead of a preposition plus which for places and times
That is the cafe where we first met.
Drop the pronoun in a defining clause when it is the object of that clause, in writing as much as in speech
The movie I watched last night was excellent.
Practice
Combine into one sentence using the correct relative pronoun:
My father, is 70, still works full-time.
"I really admire the this team works together."
Combine: "The chef won an award. His restaurant just opened." Put the combined sentence in order:
The professor taught me statistics won a Nobel Prize.
The womanwon the award is my aunt.
He's the mancar was stolen last week.
That's the guy I met at the party.
The students projects were selected will present at the science fair.
Do you remember the daywe first met?